You didn’t know what a vibrator is if not for your partner that uses it to masturbate and sometimes on you.

 Though vibrators work magic on the women’s bodies while also reducing the orgasm gap, male vibrators are now in the market for induced pleasure men never thought existed.

It’s time to swap up who is in command of the controls and experience the real pleasure. It’s time to put a male vibrator to work. We want to focus the vibrational attention on the man.

Make sure both Parties Consent to it

You can maintain the rhythm of foreplay and sex while still checking in to see if your partner is having fun. Many men aren’t used to having vibrations on their bodies, so it’s understandable if they’re a little sensitive or taken aback at first.

Before the male vibrator is used on the man, ensure he consent to it despite his naivety with the vibrator.

Move Slow, Steady and Around 

If you recall your first experience with a vibrator, you were probably too sensitive to the point of discomfort, especially if you started with the toy directly on your clitoris.

Instead of trying to get him off, go in to increase pleasure. You may want to place the male vibrator on a body part (such as the head of their penis or nipples), don’t do that, aim for mild vibrations using a larger surface area. Hold the male vibrator at an angle that disperses the rumbles.  

Explore his Body with Ease and Sensually

Create imaginary lines with the male vibrator between the erogenous zones, dragging it along gently. Then concentrate on one place for a few minutes to develop anticipation and look for visual and vocal signs.

• Penis head and shaft: concentrate mainly on the base of the head (rather than the top) and up and down the shaft.

• Around the scrotum and balls of the scrotum: This would be the icing on the cake for oral sex, but it’s also fantastic on its own.

• Perineum: If you go back just a little bit further from the balls to the small region of skin, you’ll come to the perineum. It’s extremely sensitive, so apply caution when massaging it.

 The male vibrator also does wonder in the bedroom—and shouldn’t be allowed to take the back seat. Enjoy a one-of-kind sexual experience and tell it to the world.